Sex Mistake: Pegging is something a guy would like
Posted on 06. Jan, 2011 by Chris in Archive, Sex
Ok, before we even start getting into what guys think, let’s take a step back. Urban Dictionary defines pegging as: anal sex reversed. Instead of the guy sticking his penis in the woman’s butt, the woman wears a strap-on and sticks it in the man’s butt.
Now that we’re all clear on what pegging is exactly (not all of us are that well versed in all things sex), we asked 1,000 guys, do guys like pegging?
An overwhelming 72% said that they either do not like it (42%) or they refused to answer the question (30%) which could mean that they did not know what pegging was, too macho to fess up (even though this is all anonymous), or too disgusted with the idea to even justify it with an answer.
So, of the 42% percent that said they don’t like it, let’s examine why.
“I think because it could be perceived as humiliating, at least in some cultures and could provoke some discomfort or even pain in the inexperienced.” – Age: 45
“As much as I might like her playing around down there, I definitely don’t feel comfortable with anything in my butt.” – Age: 28
“No, because most men aren’t comfortable with their sexuality. They define pegging as a homosexual act; therefore, afraid to put it out there to women in fear of being labeled as gay.” – Age: 21
Next we’ll examine the 28% that admitted to liking pegging and why.
“I myself many a times feel like pegging and the act done by my wife. This is enjoyable overall.” – Age: 30
“I’m bisexual and I like to be fucked 
” – Age: 34
“Yes, because it give a lot of pleasure and gets rid of the tiredness. You get charged up once you start pegging.” – Age: 32
Well, there’s no real good way to sum this one up ladies. But I will say, you learn something new every day.
Dating Mistake: Men Use Facebook For Dating Research
Posted on 20. Sep, 2010 by Chris in Archive, Dating
Online “stalking”, you know you do it, but do guys? We asked 1,000 men, have you ever used Facebook to date, learn about a date, or find women to date? Sorry to break it to you ladies, but only 20% of guys have gone to Facebook to either meet a woman or find out information about her.
So, why do 80% of guys say no? The reasons vary from not wanting to be creepy to finding social media sites to be a privacy concern.
“No, I have never used Facebook to date, learn about a date or find women to date. I can’t stand the idea of using social media networks for privacy reasons and general lack of time.” – Justin, 31
“No, I have never used facebook or any other online thing. I guess I prefer to meet women the old fashioned way, like in a grocery store or something like that.” – Rick, 47
“No, I have not done this and would not do so. I think that using it to look for women makes you seem kind of creepy. As for someone that I’m already going to date, I want to make my own first impression of them without having my mind clouded by what I see online.” – John, 39
What about the 20%? The majority of the guys that have used the site do use it to get information on the girl. Whether it be information about what she likes or find out if she is even worth the effort.
“Yes I met a girl at a bar and wanted to learn more about her so I looked her up on Facebook. Turns out she had a boyfriend and had it posted everywhere. I am glad I found out the truth ahead of time.” – Alex, 40
“I haven’t used it to date or find women but I have used it to see what women are like after our date or to get some background information on them and see what they like to do.” – Andy, 19
“Yes, I use facebook to see if a girl is worth my time. If she seems shallow, or has racy or stupid pictures, I will not pursue a relationship with her.” – Brandon, 25
While pursuing dates online isn’t a common theme with guys, the 20% that do use Facebook for dating reasons feel it’s a valid way to see if the girl is crazy or a good way to find out what they have in common to make the date more interesting. Even though most guys don’t go this route, on the bright side the standard ways to meet a guy is still the way to go.
Sex Mistake: He’ll love me for me, no matter how I look.
Posted on 12. Aug, 2010 by Chris in Archive, Sex
Surprise, surprise! Men do care how you look. Especially naked. We polled 1,000 men and asked them this question: Do you care how a woman’s body looks once you’ve seen her naked? Here’s what they said:
The guys weren’t even subtle about it. A resounding 71% said yes. Only 29% said no. But men on both sides had reasons they felt strongly about. Sure, many men provided the typical, superficial reasoning you might expect. Here’s a sampling:
“Yes, of course. Like it or not, how a woman looks naked partially determines how good the sex is. – Collin, single, age 32
“Yes, I’m very visual and a woman must look good naked.” –Jason, married, age 36
“Yes, because that first appearance can make or break a relationship in a sexual manner. The better the body the better the sex the better the relationship.” –Josh, married, age 21.
“Yes absolutely! If it’s a great body, I’ll be dreaming of it no matter if she’s wearing clothes, naked, or even not in the room!” –Matt, single, age 27.
While most men said a definitive ‘yes’, many had more concrete, intellectual reasons why they said so. We found this sampling the most interesting because of all of the justifications they had:
“Yes. Most men don’t operate with a ‘Seeing a woman naked one time is the end-all be-all’ mindset. Physical attraction–for both sexes–is a constant process. People age, gain/lose weight, etc. Plus, contrary to what women might think, not all men are simply on a quest to see as many naked women as possible. It’s not like we see a woman naked and think, ‘Ok, done with her, onto the next one.’”—Anthony, single, age 27
“Yes because I like a woman who takes care of herself or at least is showing an effort to take care of herself. She doesn’t necessarily need to have a coke bottle figure. As a matter of fact I like an average sized women with some nice hips and a nice butt. Breast size doesn’t matter to me. I like breasts in all shapes and sizes.”—Stephen, single, age 31
“Yes. A man always wants a woman to look good. Especially if they are together for a long period of time. If a woman lets herself go after a time it only makes the man wonder what else is out there.”—Dan, married, age 31.
There were also men that said no, it really didn’t matter to them. While they were definitely in the minority of opinion, they too had very valid reasons:
“I’m not sure if you mean “once the mystery has been revealed”, but it’s nice seeing someone you’re attracted without their clothes on. Nobody has a perfect body (almost nobody), so it doesn’t matter that much how they look. It’s a turn on before you see it and it’s still a turn on after you’ve seen it a hundred times.”—Mitch, single, age 41
“No. As the saying goes, beauty is only skin deep. What counts is the person, not the body.”—Mike, married, age 52.
So ladies, looks matter.
Yes, it’s unfair. Yes, it’s stereotypical. Men are simple creatures that are visual beings. (It’s the same simplicity that make them notice you in the first place.) Men preferring women that look good is not something that can be debated or ignored. It should be embraced and accommodated to the degree that you can. It’s akin to what men must embrace and accommodate for women.
Like the notion that lifting the toilet seat isn’t an option.
