Sex Mistake: Pegging is something a guy would like
Posted on 06. Jan, 2011 by Chris in Archive, Sex
Ok, before we even start getting into what guys think, let’s take a step back. Urban Dictionary defines pegging as: anal sex reversed. Instead of the guy sticking his penis in the woman’s butt, the woman wears a strap-on and sticks it in the man’s butt.
Now that we’re all clear on what pegging is exactly (not all of us are that well versed in all things sex), we asked 1,000 guys, do guys like pegging?
An overwhelming 72% said that they either do not like it (42%) or they refused to answer the question (30%) which could mean that they did not know what pegging was, too macho to fess up (even though this is all anonymous), or too disgusted with the idea to even justify it with an answer.
So, of the 42% percent that said they don’t like it, let’s examine why.
“I think because it could be perceived as humiliating, at least in some cultures and could provoke some discomfort or even pain in the inexperienced.” – Age: 45
“As much as I might like her playing around down there, I definitely don’t feel comfortable with anything in my butt.” – Age: 28
“No, because most men aren’t comfortable with their sexuality. They define pegging as a homosexual act; therefore, afraid to put it out there to women in fear of being labeled as gay.” – Age: 21
Next we’ll examine the 28% that admitted to liking pegging and why.
“I myself many a times feel like pegging and the act done by my wife. This is enjoyable overall.” – Age: 30
“I’m bisexual and I like to be fucked 
” – Age: 34
“Yes, because it give a lot of pleasure and gets rid of the tiredness. You get charged up once you start pegging.” – Age: 32
Well, there’s no real good way to sum this one up ladies. But I will say, you learn something new every day.
Sex Mistake: He’ll love me for me, no matter how I look.
Posted on 12. Aug, 2010 by Chris in Archive, Sex
Surprise, surprise! Men do care how you look. Especially naked. We polled 1,000 men and asked them this question: Do you care how a woman’s body looks once you’ve seen her naked? Here’s what they said:
The guys weren’t even subtle about it. A resounding 71% said yes. Only 29% said no. But men on both sides had reasons they felt strongly about. Sure, many men provided the typical, superficial reasoning you might expect. Here’s a sampling:
“Yes, of course. Like it or not, how a woman looks naked partially determines how good the sex is. – Collin, single, age 32
“Yes, I’m very visual and a woman must look good naked.” –Jason, married, age 36
“Yes, because that first appearance can make or break a relationship in a sexual manner. The better the body the better the sex the better the relationship.” –Josh, married, age 21.
“Yes absolutely! If it’s a great body, I’ll be dreaming of it no matter if she’s wearing clothes, naked, or even not in the room!” –Matt, single, age 27.
While most men said a definitive ‘yes’, many had more concrete, intellectual reasons why they said so. We found this sampling the most interesting because of all of the justifications they had:
“Yes. Most men don’t operate with a ‘Seeing a woman naked one time is the end-all be-all’ mindset. Physical attraction–for both sexes–is a constant process. People age, gain/lose weight, etc. Plus, contrary to what women might think, not all men are simply on a quest to see as many naked women as possible. It’s not like we see a woman naked and think, ‘Ok, done with her, onto the next one.’”—Anthony, single, age 27
“Yes because I like a woman who takes care of herself or at least is showing an effort to take care of herself. She doesn’t necessarily need to have a coke bottle figure. As a matter of fact I like an average sized women with some nice hips and a nice butt. Breast size doesn’t matter to me. I like breasts in all shapes and sizes.”—Stephen, single, age 31
“Yes. A man always wants a woman to look good. Especially if they are together for a long period of time. If a woman lets herself go after a time it only makes the man wonder what else is out there.”—Dan, married, age 31.
There were also men that said no, it really didn’t matter to them. While they were definitely in the minority of opinion, they too had very valid reasons:
“I’m not sure if you mean “once the mystery has been revealed”, but it’s nice seeing someone you’re attracted without their clothes on. Nobody has a perfect body (almost nobody), so it doesn’t matter that much how they look. It’s a turn on before you see it and it’s still a turn on after you’ve seen it a hundred times.”—Mitch, single, age 41
“No. As the saying goes, beauty is only skin deep. What counts is the person, not the body.”—Mike, married, age 52.
So ladies, looks matter.
Yes, it’s unfair. Yes, it’s stereotypical. Men are simple creatures that are visual beings. (It’s the same simplicity that make them notice you in the first place.) Men preferring women that look good is not something that can be debated or ignored. It should be embraced and accommodated to the degree that you can. It’s akin to what men must embrace and accommodate for women.
Like the notion that lifting the toilet seat isn’t an option.
Sex Mistake: Guys aren’t honest about the number of sexual partners
Posted on 04. May, 2010 by Chris in Archive, Sex
Sexual partners, we’ve all them; but is the number best kept as a secret? Whether it’s 1, 20, or 40+ (you know who you are ladies), how honest are you when telling your partner and how honest is your partner with you? We asked 1,000 guys, have you ever hidden the actual number of partners you’ve had from your girlfriend/wife?
The results are in and surprisingly (or not), 67% of guys say they will not lie about the number of partners they have been with.
“No, openness is VERY important in a relationship. If it doesn’t come out at the beginning, it will eventually, so save yourself the trouble.” – Andrew, 26
“No, I told my partner the total number of partners when she asked. I was upfront because I wanted my partner to know who I really was. I didn’t want the past to be an issue. I also thought by telling her the number she would understand that I enjoyed sex and it was/is a big part of my life.” – Kevin, 39
Now the 33%, why do guys feel they shouldn’t share the number of partners with their current significant other? Is it because it’s an extremely high number? They want to spare feelings? Or cause they feel it’s a private matter?
“Uh, Yeah. You make that sound “bad” and it’s precisely the reason you probably have troubles with relationships. This fixation of numbers of partners and fidelity is making everyone paranoid these days. Accept your beau has a history and forget about it. Guys (and Gals) shouldn’t play the “here’s a list” game and there are two reasons why you shouldn’t tell your wife/husband the number of sexual partners. A: It’s not really their business (prior activity) and B: It’s not going to make them any happier knowing. Just say “I’m here with you now” and leave it at that!” – Jim, 36
“I have hidden this number. The reason I hid it was because if the number is high and you tell them it sounds bad like you’re a player. If it is to low though, it can be embarrassing.” – Kegan, 23
There you have it ladies, most guys are more than willing to be honest with you if you ask. Just make sure whatever that number may be, that it’s something you are ready to deal with.
