Sex Mistake: Guys fake orgasms as often as women do

Posted on 26. Feb, 2010 by in Archive, Sex

You know you’ve done it ladies. Sometimes you just want to get it over with and move on to other stuff and other times it’s to make your partner feel good, but do guys do it? We asked guys, have you ever faked an orgasm? The results are in and only 30% of men say, yes, they have.

Let’s talk about the 70% of guys that say they don’t and why. First and foremost, it’s kind of hard for a guy to fake an orgasm. Usually it’s pretty obvious when they do and guys just don’t feel the need to fake anything.

“No & I never would, I think it would be too obvious since there would be no ‘trace’, plus I don’t really see the point.” – Age: 26

“No I haven’t. Why would I fake it? I have never needed to.” – Age: 32

“Nope, never. In my case, I worry about ejaculating too soon and my partner “not getting hers” 90% of the time. Personally I think I ejaculate too soon and can’t do anything about it. I would give anything for one chance to outlast her and make her orgasm at least twice before I do!” – Age: 41

“No, because I avoid having sex if I’m not in a mood. That way, I won’t have to pretend in the first place that I’m enjoying sex even though I’m not.” – Age: 22

“No, it’s usually the other way around! :) “ – Age: 30

So, what about those guys that fake it? Since it’s a rarity for guys to be able to, and most guys just don’t want to or feel the need to, why do some do it?

“Yes I had faked an orgasm. I had sex once 3 times in 2 hrs and the 4th time I was unable to cum and I faked an orgasm for my partner” – Age: 31

“Yes. It was just taking too long and wanted to go to sleep.” – Age: 55

“Yes, wife wanted a child and I didn’t.” – Age: 52

“Yes. Sometimes the orgasm just isn’t going to happen and I don’t want my partner to feel bad. Women think it’s impossible because they’d notice the ejaculate, but it’s hard to tell when using a condom or other fluids/lube are already abundant.” – Age: 32

Ok, so the down and dirty reason why guys fake it? They don’t want to make you feel bad. Guys want you to know they were satisfied, just as much as you want them to know. Plus, there are those guys that don’t want a baby when their wife does…..

Sex Mistake: Men Don’t Really Care How You Groom (down there).

Posted on 17. Feb, 2010 by in Archive, Sex

Do you have a little grass on the field? A landing strip? Or are you bare as the day you were born? Curious about what guys like the best? You asked and they answered. We asked guys: do you prefer women natural or shaved?

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The majority of guys prefer a trimmed to totally shaved look, while 28% of guys do like the all natural unshaven look.

The responses on why men preferred what they did varied and rather than sum it up for them, I think the comments speak for themselves:

Natural – a natural woman is a sexy woman. – Age: 30

All natural! I like being with a woman who is comfortable with her body, and doesn’t feel the need to try and look like a porn star. There’s also something sexy about that vintage hair look! – Age: 27

I normally like unshaved except the armpits. Because sometimes unshaved armpits give a look of untidiness. But the rest if unshaved is always very sensuous /tempting/inviting because it actually give complete feminine look. – Age: 42

Shaven, all off – it’s cleaner and much nicer when you go down on a woman. – Age: 26

Shaved is definitely the way to go for me! Even Sexier is if I get to shave her! Instant turn on there! Slick as a baby’s butt! A mouthful of hair is not fun when we are visiting “down there”! – Age: 41

Everybody has their own preferences. I myself prefer it just trimmed around the bikini line. – Age: 53

Prefer shaved, either completely or with just a bit left on top. It is much sexier without all the hair in the way. – Age: 33

Bottom line ladies, whether you have a little fluff on the muff, are totally shaved, or are au natural; you won’t know what your guy likes until you ask. However, chances are if you keep it clean and trimmed, you won’t get any complaints.

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